Complete List Of Kinks For BDSM: Feeling like the spark is off between you are your partner? Have you ever thought it might be because you guys are having same old boring sex where either he/she is on top or you are on top. Try our some stuff like BDSM. It might sound dangerous but trust me it’s not. You will go places, i mean literal places when you get to experience the pleasure of BDSM. It a whole other world!
But don’t just go into BDSM without any knowledge. First you need to find a kink. You and your partner needs to find a kind for BDSM and only then you will experience the pleasure of heaven while doing the things of hell.
I am in a good mood, so let me just grab my coffee and give you the COMPLETE LIST OF KINKS FOR BDSM. Oh well! i will even throw some of my favorite kinks for BDSM. I have made a thorough research on all kinds of kinks people have, some are weird, some are painful, some gives pleasure, and some ight make your feel like you are in 50 shades of grey movie, waiting for your Christen to come and devour you.
Movies like 50 shades of Grey, 365 days has played a huge role in people actually trying BDSM. I mean you go girl! First let’s start with my favorites, and then we can go on with the long list of kinks for BDSM. I am sure your will find your kink somewhere in this article.
My Favorite Kinks for BDSM! (Ohhlalal)
Dominance and Submission (D/s)
Yes i admit this is basic one being dominant or submissive, but guess what you can have your own version of dominance and submission.
What is D/S? One partner (the submissive) gives power to the other partner (the dominant). You can shift your existing desires into a D/s dynamic, like giving commands instead of asking.
Master and servant is the best example to go with. Servant needs to obey to master. What ever command Master gives, servant has to obey it no matter what. Let you imagination run wild folks, this is your time to make your servant do anything with you or them (sexually/erotically).
Spanking
Spanking doesn’t always means spank on the butt. You know what i mean yeahh!! If you are thinking of pain, oh my dear friend, you cannot be anymore wrong than this. It’s simple, titillating and, if it’s up your alley, just plain feels good. Pleasure in Pain baby!!
Start with light, open-palm spanks on the lower butt cheeks. Use a scale of 0-10 to communicate the intensity of the sensation. You can spank your partner with a paddle or riding crop, or a makeshift toy like a spatula or hairbrush. Just take a belt and spank hard on that lusty butt to punish if she/he is being a bad bad girl/boy.
“Spanking fires up the nerve endings and blood flow in the genitals,” Midori.
Ok unless you want to feel actual pain which can be your kink for BDSM, try spanking harder like way harder go above 10. You can take all sorts of tools.
Bondage
“Bondage is about temporarily controlling or limiting another’s movement for fun,” Midori.
Use simple restraints like scarves, cuffs, or velcro ties instead of complex rope systems. If you want to go a level higher than sure use ropes and metal handcuffs or wires, or anything you feel like you could tie your partner with. You have no idea what lengths people have went for this. Use something to even tie their mouth, it is more fun that way.
Tie around your woman/men go all the way up and down their body with you fully in charge of how they move or speak. Get the rope bruises, who cares just enjoy the kink.
Sensory Deprivation
Use blindfolds, earplugs, and other tools to limit external stimuli. Go pitch black, put noise cancellation headphones. It helps ground you in your body and bring you into the moment. When you cut off sight or hearing ability during sex you are tend to feel other sensations coz your mind is now free to explore other senses. It will specially heighten the sense of touch.
You can play a fun game with it, touch your partner with a feather or silk cloth, and start asking your partner questions. Each time they answer correctly, give them a litter more of that touch, more harder, and more sensational.
Orgasm Control
It a hard tension when you let your partner be in control of your orgasm. Be caution i am warning you if you cant have a control you might even lose the feeling of orgasm at that point, so know the limits you can go here beforehand.
Explore forced, postponed, or denied orgasms to create heightened sexual tension. You can use restraints or chastity devices to prevent orgasm. Postponing an orgasm relies on the frustration of not being able to climax to make the final payoff even more spectacular. Uses a vibrator or performs oral sex on them during the peak hours.
Here’s an idea, why not try everything at the same time. Be the D/S, let the dominant one spank the submissive and then tie to a chair or bed and cover their eyes, make him/her reach the peak of orgasm and don’t give them permission to orgasm.
Okay! enough of my favorites, its time to find your favorite kink for BDSM.
Complete List Of Kinks For BDSM – Sauscy
Abasiophilia – A fetish for people in devices that impair mobility, such as neck braces, wheelchairs, and casts. It may be part of a medical fetish or enjoyed because it restricts movement.
Autogynephilia – A kink where men present/dress as women (gynemimetophilia refers to men impersonating women). Autoandrophilia is arousal at the idea of being a man.
Autofellatio – A kink where a man performs a blowjob on himself.
Autoplushophilia – A type of plushophilia where a person is aroused by the idea being a stuffed animal, especially a cartoonish one.
Barebacking – Sex without a condom, which can be dangerous and lead to STI transmission or pregnancy.
Bathroom control – When the dominant person controls when, how and where the submissive can urinate or defecate. Extreme bathroom control can be dangerous.
Begging – A kink for begging and pleading (to have sex, for release/orgasm, to perform an act, etc.). Begging is submissive in nature.
Belonephilia – Affinity to pins, needles and sharp objects. Belonephilia can be quite dangerous.
Bestiality – Sex with animals.
Bimbofication – The process of making someone into a bimbo or being turned into a bimbo themselves. This might be a fun “punishment” for a bratty sub.
Blindfolds – A type of bondage that blocks a person’s vision. See also amaurophilia.
Body Inflation – The practice of inflating or pretending to inflate a part of one’s body, often for sexual gratification.
Bondage – Restraint of a person, either by physical item (cuffs, rope, etc.) or instruction (known as mental bondage). Restraint can be full-body (vacuum beds, suspension) or involve a single body part such as the eyes (blindfold), mouth (ball gag), wrists or even thumbs.
Group sex (Polyiterophilia) – Group sex and multiple party scenarios. Threesomes are one of the more common arrangements (and a fascination with three-person sex is known as triolism/troilism).
Haematomania aka hematolagnia – Lust for blood and bleeding. May include wounds, vampirism or biting to draw blood. It goes without saying that this one is obviously quite dangerous.
Harpaxophilia – The fetish for being robbed. Can be played as a role in consensual nonconsent. Chrematistophilia is a similar kink for being forced to pay for sex.
Helplessness – Any role in which someone is helpless. They may be the victim to their roleplay partner (robber, kidnapper, etc), or their partner may act as a savior (think of a princess who needs saving or an inept housewife).
Homeovestism – Attraction to the clothing of one’s own gender or by people wearing the clothing accepted as appropriate for their gender by society.
Hybristophilia – Arousal by the knowledge that one’s partner has committed a heinous act or crime. This can include cheating, lying, robbery, or murder.
Hypnotism – In an erotic situation, hypnosis could be a form of consensual nonconsent. Try out this kink with some sexy magician/assistant role play.
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Hypoxia – Paraphilia for being submerged under water to restrict breathing, a type of erotic asphyxiation. This can be fatal.
Immobility – A kink involving bondage and forced feeding.
Impact play – Any activity involving hitting, either with body parts or other tools. Hitting, punching, spanking, flogging, whipping and paddling are just a few forms of impact play, and intensity varies with the tool and effort.
Impregnation – The fascination with making someone pregnant/conception during sex, typically from a man’s point of view.
Imprisonment – Obsession with being locked inside cages, cells, coffins or other areas.
Infantilism – A specific type of age play where someone plays an infant/baby. This can involve pacifiers, diapers, bottles, etc. A second person may act as a nanny or parent.
Internal cumshots – Similar to a semen fetish but arousal is due to being ejaculated into rather than on. If you’re trying to avoid pregnancy, anal sex is the only safe way to engage in this kink. But STIs can be transmitted through semen even during anal sex.
Intercrural or interfemoral sex – Thrusting between someone’s thighs without penetration.
Intoxication – Taking drugs or alcohol during or before a sex scene. Intoxication can lead to poor decision-making, risky behavior and mistakes that could be dangerous or even fatal, especially when mixed with edge play.
Jerk off instructions (JOI) – Being instructed to told to to masturbate.
Katoptronophilia – A fetish for having sex in front of mirrors. Some people are simply turned on by seeing themselves in a mirror.
Keraunophilia – A sexual fascination with thunder and lightning – similar to arousal from thunderstorms (brontophilia).
Kigurumi – This fetish is all about wearing anime masks, specifically men who wear masks of women.
Knife play – A type of edge play activity that involves actual knives or blades or the implication of. Breaking someone’s skin during kinky sex could be quite dangerous.
Lactation – A lactation fetishist is all about lactating mammaries, that is, boobs producing milk. Many women enjoy the sensation of nipple suckling, and their partners enjoy breastfeeding.
Latex/rubber – Latex, rubber, PVC and similar materials attract our eyes with their sheen. They make for perfect fetish photography, too.
Revving – Kink for watching someone rev an engine, especially when they wear heels. Also known as “pedal pushing” or “pedal pumping.”
Retifism – The fetish for shoes and footwear. Also known as altocalciphilia.
Rhabdophilia – A fetish for receiving physical beatings such as flogging or whipping.
Robotism – Kink for androids (male robots) or gynoids (female robots) or cyborgs.
Ropework – A kink for rope as used as the specific type of bondage. Popular types of ropework include the Japanese-inspired shibari, more correctly called “Kinbaku”.
Rimming – A kink for giving or receiving rim jobs.
Sadism – The kink for providing pain. Masochists and sadists often come together to meet one another’s kinky needs.
Savantophilia – Fetish for people who have a cognitive impairment or delay.
Scatophilia – A fetish for fecal matter. Also known as coprophilia.
Sensation play – A light kink where partners exchange sensations on the skin. Items with different textures (soft, hard, bumpy, smooth, cold, hot, etc) can be run across the skin.
Sensory deprivation – Any play that prevents someone from using one of their five senses. Blindfolds block sight, gloves prevent touch, earmuffs deprive the sense of hearing, etc.
Siderodromophilia – A fetish for trains or engaging in sexual activity on a train.
Slime fetish – A kink for slime and slimy things. Tentacles are a prime example of a slime fetish in popular media. This fetish is closely related to the mess fetish.
Sneezing Fetish – A kink for watching someone else sneeze. This person is usually naked. Sneezing elicits a bodily response somewhat similar to orgasm.
Ursusagalmatophilia – Kink for teddy bears or dressing up as a teddy bear/animal.
Urtication – Using the nettle plant to sting a partner’s skin.
Vaccinophilia – Vaccination fetish. See also medical play and belonephilia.
Vicarphilia – Being sexually vicarious, specifically related to enjoying other’s stories of sexual activity.
Vincilagnia – Kink for being tied up and at the mercy of another person. This is a type of bondage fetish.
Vomit Fetish (Emetophilia) – A sexual obsession with the act or substance of vomit.
Vore/Vorarephilia – Sexual desire to be eaten alive or to eat someone while they are still alive. Vore would incredibly dangerous and illegal if attempted in reality, but it remains a fantasy for most people.
Voyeurism – A kink for watching someone else while naked or engaged in sexual activity. Voyeurs and exhibitionists make excellent pairings. Non-consensual voyeurism may be against the law. Ecouteurism is a related kink for listening to someone have sex without permission.
Watersports (urophilia) – A relatively popular fetish, watersports are also known as golden showers. This kink involves playing with urine, being peed on or urinating on another person. A particular form of this is wetting: urinating in one’s underwear and clothing.
Wax play – Using wax during sex. Wax comes in the form of massage candles, which are relatively safe. But other types of wax may have a higher melting point and be more dangerous. Flames used to melt wax also pose a risk.
Weapon fetish – Sexual arousal due to weapons. This appears in some erotic media.
Wet and messy (WAM) fetish – Being turned on by being soiled by things other than bodily fluids. Also known as sploshing. This can include food.
Xylophilia – Fetish for wood. It may also be described as an attraction to nature, sexual or in general.
Yeastiality – Sexual activity involving bread, especially warm dough. This may be an alleged kink. Introducing yeast to the genitals can lead to an infection.